Final Exam
There are many different hobbies out there that are completely different. They can range anywhere from riding bikes to seeing how long you can hold your breathe underwater before you pass out. Hobbies can be things that are far out, or they can be something that many people do. There is not limit onto what a hobby can be. I have a different hobby and that hobby is keeping my girlfriend around for the rest of my life.
Well it all started at work. We were co-workers and our boss kind of hooked us up. It was weird to me because I never usually wanted anyone to find me a girl I liked to find them on my own but I decided to give it a chance anyway. On our first date we went out to eat at the olive garden. It was a nice delectable dinner with good talking going on. It was not as nerve raking because we had worked together for over a year so we could talk about things that mainly pertained to work. She was a really awesome girl that I never would have given a chance if it wasn’t for my boss. At first she just didn’t seem like my type. She seemed very quiet and not outgoing. Well she still is quiet but she is very outgoing. That may not make any sense but it does to me. We clicked very well on our first date and decided that we should be girlfriend or boyfriend, (or in john goldmine’s day it would be called going steady). I didn’t let myself get close in the first few months because I knew I was leaving the state and I wasn’t going to be moving back. It was hard for me not to let myself get close but I did. She understood why I didn’t want to get close, but she let herself get very close to me anyway. This would lead to what we have going for us today.
At about the middle of the relationship from then to now it would have been around the six month mark. This was the longest relationship I had ever been in, in my entire life. I guess I was happy and that is why I decided to stay with her. At this point I still wasn’t letting her in because it would only be a couple weeks now before I left for Maine. Well it got harder and harder to think about leaving her behind every day that came closer to the big move. Work got hard because we had the same schedule all week long, and she couldn’t think about me leaving the restaurant. It didn’t help that other people were sad and that just made her that much sadder. I know I may sound a little full of myself but I grew up there for ten years and had a lot of really good friends. It was to the point where I didn’t know what I was going to do. At this point I was for sure that we were going to break up and I would be single when I got here to Maine but that wasn’t the case at all. I couldn’t see her or hear about her with any other man but myself. I know she would find one in no time at all because she is so beautiful, so smart, and so sweet that any guy would love to just gobbler her up. As I thought about it more and more I just couldn’t break up with her. This was the time I finally opened up to her and let her inside. It felt so right that I knew I had made the right choice and I would never regret it.
Well finally it comes down to the lasted section of my relationship with my girlfriend. It has been the best time of my life with a girl that I will never forget. Of course being away from each other is very hard which makes the relationship very hard to so this is the toughest part right now. When I was back in my old town I made a couple mistakes that I can’t take back. She is not happy with me at all, but she found it in her heart to forgive me and take me back into her life. Since I have let her get inside my vault of feelings so much has changed in my life. She has changed me into someone that I don’t know if I ever would have been transformed into without her. There came a point in time when it finally clicked that this was the girl for me. It was hard for me to realize this at first due to all of the commotion of moving and past girlfriends but it happened with the snap of a finger almost. When that minuet came and I realized that I was in love with this girl I knew that I couldn’t let her go. The only thing that I really cared about at this point in time was keeping her. It has been a very rough last five months but I know and she knows that someday we will be together forever and there is no changing that. I can tell by the way she talks to me and looks into my eyes and says, “I love you,” how she truly feels about me. I have never encountered someone with so much love, emotion, and passion for me like she has and that is something that I will cherish forever.
Hobbies come in all different shapes in sizes and there is not telling what someone might do for a hobby. Where ever there is a hobby there is always someone to do it. The world is surrounded by tons of different personalities and different people that enjoy doing different things. To me a hobby is something that you love to do any chance you get and you always want to better yourself at. I know my hobby isn’t one that many people would think is a hobby, but it is a hobby that I intend to do for the rest of my life. I love my girlfriend and this is a hobby that I will work at for the rest of my life.
